DecadenceNYC was formed by a number of friends with roots in both the swing and BDSM communities who saw many synergies between these two lifestyle dynamics, felt that they were complementary in many ways and perceived a lack of venues where both could be simultaneously experienced and enjoyed.
DecadenceNYC hosts regular parties where we offer a no-pressure, laid back environment for people to explore their fantasies. No one is ever obligated to do anything, EVER. Coming to watch and seeing what you might, at some point enjoy doing is perfectly fine with us. In fact, we recommend that newcomers come out to do just that. Look, ask, take in what is going on and decide what you might like to try. We are always happy to answer any questions that anyone has. Just look for one of us, pull us aside and we will be happy to explain anything going on, help make introductions or answer any other questions you might have.
DecadenceNYC is inclusive of all people that have a true interest in exploring their sexuality as well as their kink. While we don’t expect everyone to enjoy everything, we feel that we offer enough opportunities for those looking to expand their horizons and explore with other like-minded people in a safe and discreet environment. And at DecadenceNYC no one will ever pressure you to do anything you are not prepared to do.